Some people really irk me especially those that say military spouses have it no different then any other spouse....Um yes honey we have it a little more difficult we stand on the side lines waiting and praying that our loved ones are okay and that we hear from them day to day. Our loved ones leave us for an x amount of months or even a year and you're loved one only leaves for a couple of days to a week and you think you have the right to tell military spouses to suck it up well be just fine....Bitch I'm sorry but walk in my shoes for a day and tell me that you're not tired, frustrated, irritable, and scared all at the same time just praying that someone doesn't show up at your door saying that your loved one is coming home in a damn body bag. And then try to tell me to suck it up again I bet you won't. Try raising your child and trying to explain where dada or momma is try explaining that to a 12 month old it's not easy is it. You say it's easy but it's not as easy as it looks....Yeah before I became a military wife I didn't know what it was like hell I never even knew of the struggles that we go through every damn day just trying to get a few moments to ourselves and trying to keep ourselves busy trying not to think about what our spouses are doing out there and not having any knowledge of it. So you tell me to suck it up when I'm having a bad day bitch until you have walked a mile in a military spouses shoes you will not know what it feels like to have a horrible day where all you want to do is curl up to your spouse and tell them all about it for them to make you feel better but NO YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THAT RIGHT because your spouse is not in the military but you think you have the right to tell a woman that is feeling horrible and looking for support because she just found out that her husband is coming home in a box and that she will not get to hear the words "I love you" come from his lips again or feel his touch ever again to suck it the hell up and move on.
Excuse me but would you like it if I told you to suck it up if someone you loved dearly died and you never got to talk to them again I don't think so. Find something better to do then try to make military spouses feel worse then they already do. I'm done ranting and venting I really hope you do get my point if not then I hope someone gets it across to you because you're nothing but a split personality, psychotic, attention loving bitch because if you truely cared you would have more sympathy then what you have.
